Monday, June 21, 2010

Factors affecting marriage..........tell me your opinion



Factors affecting marriage.........



There should not be any barrier in true and sincere love...I mean Religion,Caste, Horoscope, medical fitness, Financial back ground...etc etc...shouldnot play in between True love.....


If marriying a Guy Do u think Caste is an important factor ?????

In my opinion Caste doesnt hav any role.The important thing which I look is the frequency and wavelenght match....more over will check the compactability and mutual understandingg....It doesnt mean that , the mariage life between 2 pupils havng same frequency and wavelenght will b a great suceess but I think above caste, religion,horoscope and all ..these factors such as frequency,wavelenght,and mutual understanding plays an important role.....


Am I coerrect or not????


What is your opinion?????? Please tell me your opinion.....

8 comments:

  1. Firstly let me ask u one qus Are you in love with any one in other religion....??? whatever be the answer my opinion is......
    Religion,Caste, Horoscope, medical fitness, Financial back ground...etc have no role in pure love....

    At marriage....If u are marriying a guy.. then cast is not at all a problem.. We should marry the person whom v love the most which will help us to live better.. But life will not end with a marriage...

    frequency,wavelength,and mutual understanding is an essential factor in life and is not just limited for a love marriage and for an inter cast marriage.... k.
    Then think abt life after marriage. In a state like kerala so many problems will arise as the result of inter-cast marriage... rite..???

    " Think Twice And Be Practical "

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  2. Wat u said is corrrect...but the thing is , problems will be der in all marriages...but I dont think being in different caste creates problems...

    Evenif in same caste u can c problemsss in marriage life, its not the caste or religion creating problemss...The caste , religion etc etc ... are man made factorss..its not so important in marriage life.it doesnt mean that am in love with a man from another caste or religion..i said the common fact..

    The problem wich u hav mentioned after marrige , I think is about children and their caste...I think its not a great matter.We should make them live as a good human being.To watever caste they belong they must b a good person.

    Anywy thanks 4 ur comment.....

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  3. no frank straight opinion.. but makes us think about the movie BOMBAY, where aravid swamy a hindu and manisha a muslim.. just putting myself in her shoes.. cant even think of the problems she has to face when she comes to the guys house... KIDS CASTE WHEN JOINING SCHOOL.. KIDS SHOULD GROW IN WHICH CUSTOM.. LOTS AND LOTS... and the guy has to face when she goes to her house.

    Things would have been just right
    1. If both the guy and the girl does not need anyone of the family(even the mom she loved most, and father who spent his earnings), right after the marriage and that wont happen especially life becomes waste when you cant share your joy with your family.
    2. If the society approves. I have had lot of friends who are married intercaste, interreligion, and even have seen marriages where language was not a barrier(a tamil guy marrying a chinese), though in some cases parents agreed, but the factor SOCIETY + RELATIVES .

    THOUGH THESE ARE ALL MY OPINION.. Even I have the thought.. does this all worth it.. and will she change enough for him.. and will he change enough for her.. and is there something called true love/false love..

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  4. for me caste do not play any role in marriage it is only what u feel that is important... if u truely love someone why don't u marry that person

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  5. Hello! I am really curious about one thing, of course if I'm not asking too much could you please tell us your place of birth?

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  6. When people fall in love they don't think about caste and anything other.And naturally they can 't think because love is thing which don't allowed any condition.
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    http://www.lovespecialistindia.com/Vashikaran-mantra-in-hindi.html

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