Thursday, November 26, 2009
horoscope not matching....three proposals rejected....
Oh God.....................my parents are seriously searching alliance 4 me....
Last week 3 proposals came...rejected all...horoscope not matchingg...
Am not intrested in this horoscope and all...but my parents some wat...and boys parents need horoscope 2 match...oh thank God...if horoscope is not there...one of these guys would hav married me now...Oh really cant imagine.....
I dont wanna 2 marry......especially these unknown guyss......
I want 2 marry a guy hu knows me well...hu loves me well....Who really can survive in my possessiveness(will make you mad sometimes due to possessivness)hehehe..............
hey guyss...Is anyone there who can survive in my possessiveness?????????????
I know....The answer will be NO.....
Because no one will be there who can survive in my possessiveness.....hehehe.......
My choTtuusss will reach home 2dy.........
Friday, November 20, 2009
No one can love me as much as am loving dem.....
Ohh...dont know wat 2 say....
I love my parents,, I love my sisters, I love my relatives,I love my friends............
I really Loves someone very special.....
But no one can love me as much am loving dem.....No one havnt givn me d same love wich am giving 2 dem...xcpt my parents.....
Am not expecting anything from others....because ""'Xpectations Hurts"""'
So I think its better for me not 2 love others very sincerely....
But oh God...I reallly cant dat too....
No probzz......
Even if u cant love me as much am loving you.....You can xpect my love throughtout d life...LIFE LONG........
No one can beat my love.........
Tips for life.........PLZzzzz read dizz......
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, 'Public Utilities Board.' There was silence. She repeated, 'PUB.' There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, 'Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is.' Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just 'hello' instead of 'PUB'.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'
The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.' We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake .
CREATING A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested 'I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one.' The SDU officer said, 'Your requirements, please..' 'Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest.' The officer listened carefully and replied, 'I understand you need television.' There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.' It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that 'A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.' Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, 'Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.' On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, 'Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.' She answered,'You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you..' Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, 'Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? 'Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, 'The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?' Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, 'How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.'The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, 'Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.' Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, 'Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck.' Then he asked, 'but when are my fingers going to grow back?' The father went home and committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones and hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever. "Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One""Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away"
Hey boyzz...try 2 realise the fact.....
I just went 4 a marriage of my friend...met one of my old classmate...wen I saw her really felt so sad...because she is some wat gunduu....but now become slimm......really bcum slim.......
Boyz should realise some facts...now a days girls r not lyk dat of old age...Dey hav their own identity, deir own decisons..their own freedom.You hav 2 accept dat...you should not imagine a girl lik dat of old age....because no one will b der..
Boys, plz try 2 understand d fact...LIFE IS NOT A MERE GAME........
If u cant lead a life, or if u r not ready 2 bear responsibilities.....pls dont get married...dont spoil girls life....
I just want to tell d lines wriiten by John Keats...
" TWO SOULS BUT A SINGLE THOUGHT,
TWO HEARTS DAT BEAT AS ONE."
Married life should b lik dis...if anyone who cant b lik dis,... pls dont marry.....
Thursday, November 19, 2009
My Orkut Captions........
Hello My Dear Friends,,,,,,,,,,, I just wanna inform you onething,,,,,,,,, if anybody wants,,,,,,lovely,touching captions,,,,,,,,plzzzz contact my lovely friend.......He is the one , creating orkut captions 4 me..... No No,,,,,, contact me,,,,,,,......
Most of my orkut captionz r suggested by him.....
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Bank test(SBI).... @ coimbatore....
I had a test on coimbatore...bank Test..SBI.....
It was in PSG Hr Secondary School..Peelamedu...
While I was filling d answer sheet one sir came near 2 me and asked.." R u a MBA graduate??"
He asked me bcaz der was a column in d sheet 2 fill whether we r Post graduate or not....so i was bubling post grauate column...He asked me at dat tym...
I told NO Sir, Am MSc...
So he agn asked " Which sub?"
I told " MSc PHYSICS"
He wondered and told ""den y u r searching for dis bank clerical jobzz...U will get other good jobs na....????""
I just thought....ohhh....God...
and I just smiled and without thinking anything told......""I am just writing for an experince""......A great lie...hehehe
But I said in my mind...
""Oh sir do u no one thing....am 25 yrs old now...hav got a job...but not stable one...till now havnt setteled...hav 2 settle fast..want 2 stable fast...dats y am tring in all sectors..in bank, Teaching, software...U no after trying my luck in Kerala now am here trying my luck in Tamilnadu too....hehehe..."""
34 lakh pupils wrote d exam...Dont no Whether God will bless 2 b one among d pupilz in d rank list..
Oh God...its all in ur handzz....Plz dont leave me....plzzzzzzz.............
Dont no wen am going 2 settle...pls God..pls make it fast....
Missed 500Rs...just for one digit.....
we missed d train due 2 our lavish shopping..so came back by bus...wile sitting in bus one man came with lottery.....As one person came with lottery, inorder 2 fulfill d words wich I told earlier I took one...."SUNDAY FUN".....
I was really waiting for d result...but wen d result announced, I at first started looking frm last price..... but my num is not der....
den i searched the price of 500Rs...
Oh god...d price is for 5284...but my num is 5283.....
just missed 500Rs for one digit.......Really misssed....
Monday, November 16, 2009
oh God...thanks 4 giving me such a lovely frienzz....
My chakki(chikku...my loving sister),chinjuus...my two sisters wished me my bday....chinju busy with her MBA project, and Chakki in Erode doing enginering......so both wer not able 2 giv gift 4 me...Chikku told dat she hav sent a card 4 me...am waiting 4 dat...Eda kittiyilledaaaa......
My papa and mummy gav me 500Rs...2 take dresss.....
Sameer one of my student and his sweet heart sherina gav me a Dairy milk...my favourite chocolate...actually he has givn dat in hands of Deena....dont no wen he gav dat in her hand....
thanks a lot sameer and sherina....
All my lovely friends cald me....vinitha(my vinu), praseeda, shalu, ansal sends me msg, my cousin rekha frm blore....oh thanks 2 all...
My orkut filled with Bday scrapzz......all of my friens, collegues, students...hav sent me a lot of scrapz...thanks 2 all...
Shalu was celebrating by sending many scrapzz.....Funnny girl.....
I actually couldnt name all...anywy thanks a lot 2 all of my friendzz....am reallly lucky 2 hav friends lyk u...Its because of ur strength and support am still alive.....will never 4gt....
Thanks a lot 2 all ....expecting same from u alwayzzz....
Sonuzzzz
Hey best friend you are the second wisher.........
Actuallly Prajuu is d one hu wished my Bday in advance ...5days back he wished me....... .....
2dy morning @ sharp 12.00 am Deena called me first......Aftr her call prajuu called me....so Prajuu become d second wisher........But am reallly thankful 2 both of you....For wishing me my Bday...
your loving friend
sonuzz.....
2DY My Bday.......Deena wished me first.....
Dis tym tooo.....MY frnds r celebrating my BDAy...
Thursday, November 12, 2009
PRAJU Wished me first......My first silver jubilee wish....
My birthday is on nov -16 th.......
But my best friend wished me HAPPY BDAY in advance........
Its Praju who wished me first....MY SILVER JUBILEEE WISHES......
Thanks .....thanks a lot....
You r reallly making me 2 say a lot of thanks 2 you........You prooved 2 b my best friend......hop you will b so....
THANKS A LOT PRAJUUU............BUNCH OF THANKS,,,,,,,,,,
Sonu.....
Can u imagine a 20-21 year guy without mobile...but is der....one of my student Vinoy....
Because in dis fast world I think d babies r having birth with mobile fone in deir hands.....new born babies too was dat much addicted in mobiles......but in dis case its reallly difficult 4 me 2 believe a 20-21 year old boy with out mobile.....Good vinoy...reallly cant find a simple guy lyk u in dis fast world...keep dis simplicity lyf long...kkk
Vinoy is very serious in studies tooo......
Vinoy I really appreciate you.......you will surly succeed in lyf......
As a teacher I will remember you lyf long and my blessing too will b der 4 u.....
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Guruvayoor....met my LOVER lover KRISHNAAaaa.....Got his Blessingzzz...
We went 2 Guruvayooor last sunday(8/11/09)....Me with Jeena and Deena....huge rush was der....stayed in queue for nearly 3hrs......der it was pandheeradi pooja gng on...bcaz of dat the sreekovil is opening and closing for all 10 min....
Oh God....Krishna....u reallly tested us...many pupilz returned back frm queue....we stood on ladies queue...stilll der was a long queue...but we overcomed Krishnans testing...had good dharsanam...
Krishnaaa u reallly tested us....but...
My lover, KRISHNAaaa...really blessed me.....blessed us....
Touched me as a cool breeze....
Hey krishnaaaa....wen will u call me again...want 2 see u again, as earlier as possible...so pls take me 2 der as fast as u can...kkk....cant live with out you...am holding U tightly in my mind...
Hey kalla KRISHNAaaa...., do u know one thinggggg????, As u are experimenting with my lyf, my mom too askd me 2 change my favourite God...dat means 2 change YOU....but I told 2 MOM dat "Let Krishna play with my lyf...evenif playing he is supporting me a lot....He is loving me a lot"...kk...still am holding you in my mind...bcaz LOVE YOU DAT MUCH....hmmm....
so Krishnnaaa...am allowing you 2 play with my lyf....but if giving some critical lyf situations,, Am expecting d complete support, love and care wich u alwyz use 2 giv....kk....
LOVE you Krishnaaa.......
need u alwayzz Krishnaaaa.....
Need your BLessing Tooo........
so, BLESS me 4ever........
After dharsanam we had lunch from d hotel nearby 2 temple....
Actually one of my best student sameer has invited 2 his home ...We hav already told 2 him dat we coulnt bcaz we can imagine d rush of Guruvayur b4 gng 2 der itslf....
his home is near by Guruvayur...Chavakkad...but we couldnt go...His sweet heart sherina told us dat his umma is a good cook.....sherinaa told us not 2 miss his ummas food...but we missed ummas food....
Had a good shopping..............
Deena bought one krishnan...d snap which i hav put above....
Really a blessed journey............
(Jeena and Deena busy shopping)
marine Drive and saree....reallly mis matching...
BUt one probz was der...we went 2 marine drive aftr Priyas marriage...we wer in saree...no tym 4 us 2 go 2 hostl and change dresss...mor dan dat our hostl mother will b asking explanations...so we dropped d plan of going back 2 hostl and changing dress.....we went 2 marine drive by wearing saree...but it was reallly mis-matching.............but anyhw we managed.....
Unforgettable memorizzzzzzz............
Had pani puri and bhel puri>>>>>>>>>>>>
Oberon visit...met one known couplezzz............
Monday, November 9, 2009
Unlogic RULEZz of mother in Hostel....
Priyas marriage was on Last satrdy(7/11/09) ...me and Deena weared saree...dressed and came from our room..wen we reache down floor, mother was talking 2 some aunties....When she saw us dressed in saree..she askd 2 us wer we r gng? we told" we r gng 2 offic...frm der one marriage function is der"...at dat tym mother told us if gng 4 function want 2 ask permissn frm mothr....mor dan dat she need permission of our parents too....oh God.....we really felt angry...but at dat momnt itslf I cald my papa and Deena cald her papa..and hand overed d fone 2 mother...dont no wats d logic behind dat....mother actually shine infront of dat aunties....dats wat hapnd....
If we hav cald someothers and handovered fone 2 mother....will she able 2 know dat?..I reallly felt dat as unlogic....
anyhw our papas cald and got permissn....We went 4 function....
Hey mother......wats d logic behind ur dat deed...if we hav handovered fone call of some others, hw com u know dat? We r gud....but dont think all as lyk dat....
Friday, November 6, 2009
NyaNoo- oooooo.....colllegiLo-ooooooooooooo......
Oh God...wats dis...I got job.....hav left d college one yr back....but again and agn pupilz r asking 2 me in wich colg you r studying? In my place too some pupils had a belief dat I came 2 Ernakulam 2 study...but I cleared all deir doubtzz....
All my students r very big...some of my old studentz r elder dan me.......infront of dem am very small....dats d problm...
I think wearing dis churidar is d problm.....Need 2 wear saree 4 getting mature look....but I hate wearing saree...
oh...dis maturity is enough.....
Am alwyz young.....EVER GREEN....SANTHOOR GIRL....hehehe
Thursday, November 5, 2009
had fight with my friend....but will u lyk if I did so ???????
Oh my god ...Y shld I interfere in such thingzz? Y should I posseessive 2wardz my friends...Let dem do wat ever dey lyk....
I think he will take dat in d good sense only.....bcaz he well knows my posseessivnes......
Not only 2ward him..am possessive 2wards all my friends....
I think only vinitha survived in my possesivness...she succeeded in dat...she knows me well...LOVE YOU VINITHA....love you da....
...I didnt said anything bad...I told wich i felt....not in bad sense...
prajuuu...4giv me......thought i can say anything 2 u.......will say my dislyks....bcaz u r my close friend....
BUT THINK ONE THING........IF SOMEBODY DID LYK DAT 2 ME .....WILL U LYK.....TELL FRANKLY...I NEED AN ANSWER FROM YOUR HEART............
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
KISsZzzzz by jeena..................
Aftr complete make-up jeena looked in d mirror...i was sitting near 2 her only....chumma sitting...but suddenly she kissed in my cheeks...oh my god...really HOT kiss.....never expected...y she did is just 2 make d marks of lips in my cheeks...but a long kiss....
eda athu vendayirunnu.....U wasted my cheeks by ur lipstick kiss....
Hmm...willl 4giv u dis tym....but dont repeat......my cheeks r 4 my"""..............."...kkkk...
Deenas mobile gone....
My collegue Deenas mobile gone on monday.....Oh my God ...she hav saved many important things in dat.her important things such as bank details, her fotos..lyk dat...mor dan dat our hostl snapzz was also der......We r all with heavy make up...lokkking bad....chumma took...never thought of losing mobile an all...
Dont no hu got dat mobile...
Oh sorry chikkku...sorrry da....
My chakkki askd me 2 chk her mails. she cant chk mails from colg and mor dan hostl lyf. Her College is very strict and wont allow freshers 2 go outside on weeek endz.....
Monday, November 2, 2009
SHALU 4GOT 2 SAY BYE 2 ME............................
shalu shifted hostl without saying bye 2 me.......
SHALU.....U 4GOT 2 SAY BYE 2 ME...........Shalu U Hav 2 giv penalty ....one family pack DAIRY MILK....hehehe....hwz it?
Shalu....reallly a funnny girl.....
We usuallly use 2 make fun of her by saying something.....but she will bcum serious...but only 4 a while....really a funnny girl...adipoli girl......she is staying in our hostl...she shifted d hostl....but 4gt 2 say bye 2 me...told earlier...but b4 gng didnt told.....
shaluuu....too bad...am ur chechi na???????????
me tooo 4got 2 see her on fridy...just bcaz want 2 go 2 bank...so left d hostl earlier...anyhow we both 4got...
but nothing is der in saying BYE and all...bcaz its important 2 hav contact with each other...as long as orkut and telefone exits...I think we keep in touch...
Actuallly I never had clash with anyone till now...but clashed with shalu 2 tyms...sillly matters...
one clash is just bcaz of a misundrstanding....reallly bcaz of chechi hu comes 2 clean offic....I think mistake is der in her talk.....wich created many mis understandingzz........
I reallly felt so sad, bcaz its getting mor dan one year am in EKM...tilll now no clashes....noproblm with anyone...anywy wat so hapnd, hapnd...we r alwyz friendzz..................................
allle ddaaaa MANDHABUDHI???????